Gerunds vs Infinitives — verb patterns
-ing = activity/experience to + V = aim/decision bare inf = after modals, make/let/see/hear

Quick decision guide

ContextFormExample
After a preposition-ingThanks for coming.
After most adjectivesto + infinitiveIt’s hard to concentrate.
After modals (can, must, should…)bare infinitiveYou should leave.
Purposeto + infinitiveHe called to apologise.
Spending time/money; no point, can’t help, have difficulty-ingWe spent hours waiting.
Perception verbsbare inf = complete act; -ing = in progressI saw him fall. / I saw him falling.

Use to + infinitive

  • Purpose We went to the market to buy fruit.
  • After adjectives She’s eager to learn.
  • it + be + adj (+ of + object) It was kind of you to help.
  • Too/enough, a lot to, nothing to… too young to drive; nothing to do.
  • After ask/decide/expect/hope/learn/plan/promise/refuse/seem/want They decided to stay.
  • After question words Show me how to use it.
  • would like/love/prefer/hate I’d like to sit by the window.

Use bare infinitive

  • After modals She can swim.
  • let/make/help + object They made us wait. / Help me carry this. (help can also take to.)
  • Perception verbs I heard her sing (whole action).
  • had better / would rather / would sooner You’d better leave now.

Use -ing (gerund)

PatternExample
As subject / after prepositionsCheating is not allowed. • I’m tired of waiting.
Fixed expressionsIt’s no use arguing. • I can’t help laughing. • We had difficulty finding the place.
spend/waste + time/moneyHe spends hours reading.
After admit/avoid/deny/enjoy/finish/keep/mind/miss/practise/recommend/regret/suggestShe denied taking the bag.
No object vs object with allow/advise/permit/encourageThey don’t allow smoking. / They allowed us to leave.

Both forms (little/no change)

  • begin, start, continue It started to rain / raining.
  • like/love/hate/prefer I like swimming (general). • I like to swim before work (habit/choice).

Both forms (meaning changes)

Verbto + V-ing
rememberremember first, then do it — Remember to lock the door.recall a memory — I remember locking it.
forgetfail to do — I forgot to call.not forget a memory (usually with never) — I’ll never forget meeting you.
trymake an effort to achieve — Try to be on time.experiment with a method — Try adding ginger.
stoppause one action to do another — We stopped to rest.finish/quit an activity — He stopped smoking.
go ondo something next — He went on to explain the rules.continue the same activity — She went on talking.
regretformal announcements about the future/present action — We regret to inform you…feel sorry about a past action — She regrets shouting.
meanintend/plan — I didn’t mean to upset you.involve/entail — The job means traveling a lot.
needit’s necessary for someone to do — I need to see you.passive meaning — The car needs washing (= needs to be washed).

Verb + object patterns

PatternTypical verbsModel
V + object + to + V advise, allow, ask, encourage, expect, help*, invite, need, remind, tell, want They reminded us to bring ID.
V + object + bare inf let, make, have, help* She made me apologise. / She helped me (to) pack.
V + -ing / V + object + -ing imagine, keep, catch, find, leave We caught them cheating.

If there is no object with allow/permit/advise/recommend, use -ing: The museum doesn’t allow photographing.

Mini reminders

  • Spelling lie → lying, travel → travelling (BrE).
  • Formality regret to say / be sorry to say are formal notifications.
  • Meaning cue -ing often names an activity; to + V often expresses an aim/decision.
Exercises:

Gerunds vs Infinitives: Verb Patterns

Choose the correct gerund or infinitive form for each gap below.
1
I can’t afford a new laptop right now.
2
She suggested a different route to avoid tolls.
3
We decided early to avoid traffic.
4
Do you mind the window?
5
Please remember your passport to the exam.
6
He stopped sugar to his tea last year.
7
If the Wi-Fi is slow, try the router.
8
They made me the form twice.
9
This shirt needs before the interview.
10
Could you help me these boxes to the car?

Gerunds vs Infinitives: Verb Patterns

Choose the correct gerund or infinitive form to complete the sentences below.

Gerunds vs Infinitives: Verb Patterns — Choose the correct form.

1
He denied ____ the vase.
A.
B.
C.
2
We can’t afford ____ a new car this year.
A.
B.
C.
3
I stopped ____ a photo, then kept walking.
A.
B.
C.
4
Please remember ____ the door when you leave.
A.
B.
C.
5
I still remember ____ my first bike down the hill.
A.
B.
C.
6
She suggested ____ by train instead of flying.
A.
B.
C.
7
He made me ____ the whole form again.
A.
B.
C.
8
I finally managed ____ a ticket in the end.
A.
B.
C.
9
Try ____ the router off and on; it sometimes helps.
A.
B.
C.
10
She regrets ____ you that the course is full.
A.
B.
C.

Gerunds vs Infinitives: Verb Patterns

Complete the sentences using the verb in brackets in the correct gerund or infinitive form.

Dear Dr Patel,

Last month I volunteered at your literacy programme, and now I am writing 1 (apply) for the Coordinator position. During my internship I learned a great deal and even managed 2 (raise) funds for new materials. I really enjoy 3 (work) with adult learners, and I would be delighted 4 (help) the team design weekend classes.

In my previous job, I avoided 5 (make) quick decisions without consulting the data, and I always tried 6 (communicate) clearly with stakeholders. I am keen on 7 (develop) partnerships with local libraries, and I would like 8 (arrange) a short call next week. If necessary, I am prepared 9 (relocate) to your city in July. I look forward to 10 (hear) from you.

Kind regards,
Monica Rivera