Expressing Wishes & Regrets — I wish / If only
B1 Upper-Intermediate
Hypothetical present • Past regrets • Complaints
Three core patterns
| Meaning | Form | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Unreal present/future (things you want different now or later) | I wish / If only + past simple/continuous | I wish I were taller. • If only we were living by the sea. |
| Past regret (something happened / didn’t happen) | I wish / If only + past perfect (had + V3) | I wish I hadn’t quit my job. • If only they had arrived earlier. |
| Annoyance & change (you want a person/thing to change) | I wish + subject + would + V1 | I wish you would stop interrupting. • I wish it would stop raining. |
That is optional (I wish (that) I were…). The “past” forms here show distance from reality, not past time.
Unreal present & future
- Ability Use could: I wish I could drive.
- Ongoing plan Use past continuous: I wish you were coming with us.
- be: was/were Both occur after I/he/she/it; were is more formal/common in grammar rules: I wish it were easier.
- Passive I wish the room were cleaned already.
Past regrets & missed ability
- Simple regret I wish we hadn’t wasted the money.
- Missed chance/ability wish + could have + V3: I wish I could have gone to the concert.
- Past continuous to regret an ongoing past action: I wish I hadn’t been working so late that month.
would for complaints & willingness
- Use would to ask for a change in behaviour or a situation: I wish the neighbours would turn down the music.
- Not about yourself: we normally do not say *I wish I would… (except for willingness: I wish I would stop worrying is unusual → prefer I wish I could stop).
- With things we can’t control (weather, traffic) would expresses frustration: I wish it would snow less.
If only = stronger emotion
- Same grammar as I wish but more emphatic/exclamatory.
- If only I were a bit taller! • If only you had listened! • If only they would answer my emails.
Often used with an exclamation mark for strong feeling.
Hope vs wish
| Use | Form | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Realistic future | hope + present/future | I hope she passes. / I hope it will stop raining. |
| Unreal/contrary to fact | wish + past / past perfect / would | I wish she were here. / I wish it would stop. |
Style & mini-pitfalls
- After I wish / If only we do not use will for the present: ✖ I wish you will come → ✔ I wish you would come.
- Don’t mix times: present wish → past form; past regret → had + V3.
- Advice formula: If I were you, I’d… (not *was* in careful English).
Exercises:
Expressing Wishes & Regrets: “I wish / If only”
Choose the correct options to complete the text.
1
Dear Mia, I feel out of place here. I wish I
this internship.
2
If only I
to you before I signed the contract.
3
The team is polite but distant; I wish they
more welcoming.
4
The shifts are long; if only I
longer breaks.
5
Working on the old laptop is painful — I wish it
during meetings!
6
And I wish my boss
sending urgent tasks at midnight.
7
I also wish there
someone I could have lunch with here.
8
If only I
more money before moving—this city is pricey.
9
I wish you
closer to me.
10
If only I
you every weekend.
Expressing Wishes & Regrets: “I wish / If only”
Choose the correct option to complete the sentences
1
I wish I ______ a better job. I don’t enjoy this kind of work.
A.
B.
C.
D.
2
I wish you ______ so late all the time. I’m tired of waiting!
A.
B.
C.
D.
3
I wish you ______ your bedroom. It’s a mess!
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B.
C.
D.
4
If only I ______ enough money to travel last year.
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B.
C.
D.
5
If only it ______ raining now — we could go for a walk.
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B.
C.
D.
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I wish my neighbours ______ their music at night.
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B.
C.
D.
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If only he ______ to the instructions, he wouldn’t have broken it.
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B.
C.
D.
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I wish I ______ drive, but I can’t.
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B.
C.
D.
9
If only we ______ the earlier bus; we wouldn’t be late now.
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B.
C.
D.
10
I wish it ______ so hot in the office.
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B.
C.
D.
Expressing Wishes & Regrets: “I wish / If only”
Fill in the gaps to complete the sentences as in the example
1
You forgot your passport and could not board the plane. ⇒ I wish I my passport.
2
You live above a noisy bar. ⇒ I wish I in such a noisy flat.
3
Your brother keeps borrowing your car. ⇒ I wish he my car all the time.
4
You were rude to your teacher yesterday. ⇒ I wish I rude to my teacher.
5
It is raining, so we cannot have a picnic. ⇒ I wish it raining.
6
You do not know how to drive. ⇒ I wish I .
7
You must work this weekend. ⇒ I wish I work this weekend.
8
Your friend rarely calls you. ⇒ If only she .
9
You told your secret to the wrong person. ⇒ I wish I my secret to the wrong person.
10
You cannot attend the meeting today. ⇒ If only I the meeting today.