Reflexive pronouns: myself, yourself, himself…
Forms
Person | Singular | Plural |
---|---|---|
1st person | myself | ourselves |
2nd person | yourself | yourselves |
3rd person | himself / herself / itself | themselves |
In formal writing, use themselves for a generic person (Some style guides also accept singular themself).
When do we use reflexives?
- Same subject and object: She cut herself chopping the onions. • We really enjoyed ourselves.
- After a preposition referring back to the subject: He’s very proud of himself. • You should take care of yourself.
- Emphasis (no one else did it): I’ll talk to Anna myself. • Paul himself designed the logo. (position: after the subject or at the end).
by myself / on my own
Means alone or without anyone’s help:
- My son doesn’t like being by himself.
- She raised four children on her own.
Reciprocal pronouns
each other / one another = A does something to B and B does something to A.
- The twins finally found each other.
- You should try to understand one another.
Possession: each other’s / one another’s — “We borrowed each other’s books.”
⚠️ Verbs that are not reflexive in English
Learners often add myself/yourself… because their language uses a reflexive form. In English we use a plain verb:
- wash / shave / dress / relax / hurry / concentrate / open: “I need to concentrate.” (NOT concentrate myself) • “He shaved and dressed.”
- After preposition: “She looked at herself in the mirror.” (Preposition at is necessary.)
Exercises:
Reflexive pronouns: Myself, yourself, etc.
Choose the correct pronouns to complete the sentences below.
1
Don’t worry about the dishes. I’ll wash them
.
2
Be careful with that knife — you might cut
.
3
The cat always cleans
after eating.
4
We designed the website
last summer.
5
Please help
to some snacks.
6
She taught
to drive when she was eighteen.
7
The actors wrote the script
.
8
He blames
for the accident.
9
This software updates
automatically at night.
10
Let’s handle the decorations
— we don’t need to hire anyone.
Reflexive pronouns: Myself, yourself, etc.
Choose the correct formsChoose the correct pronouns for each gap below.
for the gaps below
1
Dinner is ready in the kitchen — please help ____.
A.
B.
C.
2
Tom looked at ____ in the mirror before the interview.
A.
B.
C.
3
We made the cake ____ without any help.
A.
B.
C.
4
The cat hurt ____ jumping off the fence.
A.
B.
C.
5
I don’t need any assistance — I can do it ____.
A.
B.
C.
6
Kids, behave ____ and stop shouting.
A.
B.
C.
7
She taught ____ to play the piano.
A.
B.
C.
8
Did you enjoy ____ at the party?
A.
B.
C.
9
Mind the door — it shuts ____ if you don’t hold it.
A.
B.
C.
10
After the hike, we were proud of ____.
A.
B.
C.
Reflexive pronouns: Myself, yourself, etc.
Fill in the gaps with the pronouns from the list below.
memyself
youyourself
himhimself
herherself
usourselves
themthemselves
itselfown
1
She shouldn’t blame for the mistake.
2
He had to prepare everything on his .
3
Could you introduce to your neighbour?
4
You should be proud of .
5
Don’t worry about us — we can look after .
6
Please don’t blame . He tried his best.
7
He’s going to hurt if he keeps running on that ankle.
8
Her name is Alisha, but we call Ali.
9
I taught to edit videos by watching tutorials.
10
The device can restart by after an update.